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How Can I Be Happier?

So many of us are asking How Can I Be Happier?  It’s not as difficult as you might think.  In order to be happier, we have to define what happiness is.  I was very surprised when I looked “happiness” up in the dictionary.   The first definition was “good fortune : prosperity”; the second was “a state of well being and contentment : joy”; the third was “a pleasurable or satisfying experience”.

Many people think that they are unhappy because they don’t have a lot of money.  Although it does make your life easier, money does not make you happier.  Happiness is inside you not outside.  You are the only one that controls your happiness.

The people that are the happiest are the ones that surround themselves with friends and family.  They have active lives and stay busy.  When you are busy doing something you enjoy the day flies by and you don’t have time to worry or think about being unhappy.  Try to become involved in activities or hobbies that you enjoy doing.

Another important aspect to happiness is your job.  You spend a big part of your life at your job.  If you are miserable at work, your whole life can be miserable.  I know you can’t just up and quit your job because it makes you unhappy.  What you can do is to start doing what you enjoy on a part time basis.  If you have a hobby that brings you joy, see if you can turn it into a business.  The saying “Do what you love and the money will follow” can be true.

A question to ask yourself is – what will make me happy?  Many people don’t know the answer to this.  They know they are unhappy but they don’t know what will make them happy.

What I want you to do is to image how your day would be if you were 100 percent happy.  Sit down, close your eyes and visualize it.  Start with waking up in the morning and go through your whole day doing everything that would make you happy.  Visualize your perfect day.

From now on, your goal in life is to make that visualization come true.  You were made to be happy.  Do everything you can to make it so.  Live a balanced life.

Think of this visualization every day and use your intuition to guide you in the right direction.   Sometimes we ignore our intuition and miss opportunities that would benefit our goal of a balanced life.

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